Becky took the day off because she was going to a Taylor Swift concert in London. Anwar’s parents took him out of school for a day trip to Thorpe Park, because it’s less busy during the week. Magda decided to stay off school because it was her birthday.
They thought it wouldn’t matter, but it does.
Missing school is extremely important because:
Schools must treat absence as authorised when it is due to recognised religious observance. You must get any such absence authorised in advance by your child’s school when it falls outside of school holiday times.
Important religious dates might include:
Schools don’t generally authorise absence from school for events such as weddings, christenings, first communions, bar mitzvahs and Catholic Saints days.
Although all children get a bit ill sometimes, it shouldn’t be a reason to stop them coming to school. Children are still expected to attend school if they have:
However a doctor’s note saying they need to be off school for a medical reason, vomiting, and diarrhoea are all good reasons for calling in sick.
Other considerations should also be made, for example:
It’s always good to make time to talk to your child, listen to them and find out what the real problem is. If you find it difficult to talk to your child about things, speak to someone at your child’s school.
A young carer is someone under 18 who helps look after a family member or friend who is ill, disabled or misuses drugs or alcohol. This can involve practical tasks, such as cooking, housework and shopping. It can also involve having to get up in the night to look after someone. Being a young carer can affect a young person’s health, social life and self-confidence, and some young carers end up missing school.
If you are a young carer or know a young carer, please speak to somebody at your school about support for young carers. This can be a form tutor, school nurse, head of year, or someone in the pastoral support team. The Brighton and Hove Carers Centre also works hard to support young carers. Visit this website to find out more.
Mohammed says he’s being bullied. Chloe’s parents aren’t getting on and she’s too worried about things at home to come to school. Joe is feeling anxious because he finds school work difficult and he’s fallen behind and thinks he’ll get into trouble with his teachers.
Some of these can lead to difficulties with mental health. Talking to somebody about your problems, instead of bottling them up, is the most important thing you can do to make yourself feel better and prevent developing mental health difficulties. Staying away from school will only make your problems worse.
If there are things that are making you feel bad there’s always someone at your school that you can talk to. There is also support available locally outside your school, such as the YMCA’s youth advice centre.
There are also lots of ideas available on https://findgetgive.com and www.wheretogofor.co.uk
For more information on Mental Health Services for Children & Young People in Brighton & Hove, see here.
Has needs met within universal provision. May need limited intervention within the setting to avoid needs arising.
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Has a high level of unmet & complex needs, or is in need of protection.